Creating a Bucket List for Your Pet

As much as we wish our animal companions could live forever, the truth is they simply can’t. When the vibrant pace of life begins to slow with age or illness, it often causes us to reflect on our pet’s mortality. Chances are we will outlive our animal companions, and with that comes fear, anxiety, and sadness. But loving an animal means accepting the circle of life, as short as it may be.

As your pet’s needs change, so does your shared rhythm. What were once long hikes may turn into brisk walks to the mailbox and back, naps may stretch from a few hours to an all-day affair, and veterinary care may focus less on prevention and more on comfort. But these adjustments are not a sign of loss; they’re acts of love. Just because your pet is slowing down and growing a few more gray hairs doesn’t mean you can’t find ways to celebrate the life you share — and create new, happy memories together.

A bucket list for your pet is a chance to lean into the moments that matter most, to revisit favorite activities, and to create joyful memories that will stay with you long after your pet is gone.

Your pet’s bucket list doesn’t have to be grand. Whether it’s a slow stroll through a beloved park, a cozy movie night spent cuddling on the couch, or buying new and interesting toys, there is no replacement for simply enjoying the company of each other as much as possible.

Here are a few suggestions to make the most of the time you have now with your best friend.

Whether it’s a short walk, car trip, or stroller ride, any adventure outdoors is bound to make your pet’s day shine that much brighter.

Bake your pet a delicious homemade recipe, purchase their favorite food, or spoil them with a small indulgence like a special treat.

Invite family and friends over for a pet party full of affection and attention, where they can enjoy the company of all their favorite people (or one or two, depending on your pet’s preference).

Take a simple photo shoot in a favorite place or cozy spot at home. Or consider hiring a photographer to get professional-level photos of your best friend that you will cherish for years to come.

A special paw print or memento is a fantastic reminder of the bond you share.

Whether it be a movie night on the couch or a nap together, put away your phone and be fully present for your snuggle buddy — with all the scritches their heart desires.

Indulge your pet with a spa day, complete with a gentle brushing session, a soothing massage, or a silly bow or bandana to make them look and feel their best.

Take your buddy on a slow walk or ride to sniff to their heart’s content. And if a walk is simply too much for your pet to enjoy, consider purchasing special pet-friendly scents for them to investigate at home, such as dog trailing scents or pet-safe essential oils.

As you move through this process, remember to hold yourself kindly. Grief can show up before loss ever arrives, and emotions may ebb and flow unpredictably. Let yourself feel. Talk to your pet. Share your love out loud. After all, you share a unique bond and know more about each other than you might realize. And remember not to get stuck with fears about the future. What matters most is the amazing bond you share with them right now.